Some like the lifestyle so much and the inexpensive cost of living (a quality all you can eat buffet will run you about $2.50 US per person). Not only going for the climate and reasonable lifestyle, they are attracted to the beautiful Thai women.

While North American society has applauded women's rights, some men feel that the pendulum has swung too far. In Chaing Mai, there are plenty of women that are looking for a decent man for friendship, companionship and many times marriage. Thailand is in South East Asia. A country which borders Malaysia, Myanmar, Laos, Cambodia and which has a population of 62 million.

Chiang Mai has a striking mountain backdrop, over 300 temples and a quaint historical aura. It's also a modern, friendly, internationally-flavored city with much to offer the visitor - food, accommodation and shopping are all top quality and cheap, and the nights are relatively cool.

Thailand's second-largest city and the gateway to the country's north was founded in 1296. You can still see the moat that encircled the original city. Doi Suthep, topped by one of Thailand's holiest wats, rises behind the city, providing a dramatic backdrop and fine views of the city. The best time to visit Chiang Mai is between Oct thru April. Moonsoon season prevails after these dates.

eDateTravel connected with one fellow that has made his life in Chaing Mai and is now offering his experiences for the benefit of edatetravel.com's membership base that may in interested in experiences of a North American now living in Chaing Mai. He now has a much younger Thai girlfriend and is very happy there. Here's what he says:

Known by many as "The Land Of Smiles" it is a popular tourist destination for millions of travelers worldwide. Most tourists arrive in Bangkok which is a busy metropolitan city with 10 million inhabitants. After spending a few days here they traditionally move on to beach resorts such as Phuket. Phuket is that area devastated by the tsunami a couple of years ago. Many people are seeking a less expensive holiday with more to see and do. These people come to Chiang Mai.

Chiang Mai is situated about 470 miles north-west of Thailand. A quick one hour trip from Bangkok by air, or a 13 hour relaxed journey from Bangkok by train.

Even though there are thousands of foreigners working here, living here or retired here it is still unknown to many people in North America.

Chiang Mai is a province of 1.8 million inhabitants and a city of 180,000 inhabitants. The city is very popular with tourists who flock here to see the hill tribe people, shop at the Night Bazaar where prices are negotiable and deals are waiting to be had, visit the numerous Buddhist temples or for retirement. Chiang Mai has become one of the most popular retirement cities in all of Asia.

Chaing Mai isn't just for retirement. The city and surrounding area are full of interesting activities. With many golf courses to pick from, excellent food, an active night life, low cost accommodations, and of course attractive, attentive Thai women for those who are so inclined, Chiang Mai has much to offer. Nearby you will find elephant trekking, hill tribes, hot springs, National Parks, Chiang Mai zoo and much more.

Well for one that is living in Chiang Mai may I give you the facts:

I see it safer here than in North America. After having just returned from Canada I went to a bank on two occasions to find it closed with a sign saying it has just been robbed. While in a mall I witnessed on two occasions individuals attempting to rob the liquor store being apprehended by the authorities.

Many people are seeking a less expensive holiday with more to see and do. These people come to Chiang Mai.

After living here for more than a year I have never witnessed a single crime. I have no hesitation in walking anywhere in the city.

There are many things to do here whether it be signing up for Thai cooking school, playing golf, snooker, 8 ball, or going swimming, movies or shopping at local malls, dining out, elephant trekking, and visiting temples, the famous Chiang Mai Zoo and much more. The food is delicious, inexpensive and healthy. There are many fruits grown locally year around which are a bargain compared to prices in North America. The Thai people are courteous, friendly, and speak enough English enabling one to get around without knowing how to speak Thai.

Granted it is not perfect but you know I cannot think of one place that is perfect. This is close enough for me.

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